Ice-Breakers
QUICK TIPS
Icebreakers:
What do they do?
Introduce Members
Create a Comfortable Environment
Explore Thoughts and Feelings
Break up Cliques
Release Tension
Encourage Interaction
Acquaint
Kick Things Off
Evoke Laughter, Fun
Re-Energize
Share Information
Icebreakers are activities designed to foster interaction among members.
They are particularly useful in the initial stages of group development,
but
can be effective in later stages to challenge assumptions, break up
cliques, and
deal with problems. There are hundreds of ways to “break the ice.” Here
are just
a few ideas.
Stage 1: Getting to know you
At this stage, group members know very little about each other.
Focus on names and low-risk disclosure.
- Name Game: State your name and some bit of information and repeat
this information
about each person preceding you.
- Grab Bag: Pull out an object from a bag and explain how you are
similar to it.
- M & Ms: Pass around a bag of M&M candies and have everyone take
some. Each
person must tell one thing about him or herself for each piece of candy
taken (can
also be done with a roll of toilet paper and the number of squares
taken.)
- Make“Do-It-Yourself” Nametags
- Inside/Outside: Use a paper bag and magazines; cut out things
describing how
others see you (outside) and how you really are (for inside of bag).
- Matched Pairs: Tape the name of one member of a famous pair to
each person’s
back. Participants have to find their “mate” by asking other people “yes”
or “no.”
- People Bingo: make bingo cards with titled squares like “has
lived in a foreign
country,” “owns a pair of cowboy boots,” etc., and find people who fit
each
description.
Stage 2: Getting to Really Know You
The group may experience hostility as relationships are formed and group
roles
are established. Focus on getting to know what each member is
feeling.
- Continuum: State a value and have participants share where they
all on a scale
of 1-10 (e.g., “Honesty is important” or “this group is my #1 priority”
1=dis-agree,
10=agree). Be careful to make sure group members don’t judge each others
answers as
good/bad, right/wrong.
- Social Activities
- Group Consensus Activities: Consult the many books listing
activities e.g.
Quicksilver by Butler, or Silverbullets by Rohnke.
- Gift Game: Have each member tell what gift he/she would give each
member
- Set Group Goals and Expectations
Stage 3: Beginning to Work
Group moves toward cooperation and better communications
- Personal Shields/Coats of Arms
- Positive Bombardment: one member sits in the middle of a circle
while other
members say positive things about him or her.
- Pat on the Back: members write positive things about other
members on
“post-it notes” and put them on each others’ backs.
- Group Consensus Activities
Stage 4: Working Together
The group focuses on problem solving, interdependence, and reaching
goals.
- Murder Mystery exercises, etc. where the group has to work
together to find the
solution.
- Role-playing: Members take on roles other than their own (leader,
follower,
tension-breaker, etc.) and work together to reach a goal.
- Group Self-Diagnosis and Evaluation
- Nonverbal Problem Solving (broken squares, puzzles, etc.)
- “I Wish I Could...”: Members share skills they wish to develop
and how others
in the group can provide support.
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