“When words are strange or disturbing to you, try to sense where they come from and what has nourished the lives of others.
Listen patiently and seek the truth which other people's opinions may contain for you.
Avoid hurtful criticism and provocative language. Do not allow the strength of your convictions to betray you into making statements or allegations that are unfair or untrue.
Think it possible that you may be mistaken.”
Advices and Queries
British Society of Friends Yearly Meeting, 1994